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BOSTON PERSONAL TRAINER | Yuki TRAINING | YUKI MATSUSHIMA


Hi! I’m Yuki, Tyra’s friend and personal trainer. I am a personal in-home trainer. That’s right, I come to you! Tyra has been nice enough to let me guest blog for her. So here we go.

You’re going to be looking at your wedding photos for the rest of your life, and you want to look your best. So today, I’m going to write about four exercises that can help you tone-up and shape-up to not only look your best, but to feel your best. If the gym is not your second home, or you find that you really don’t have the time to spend hours exercising, these four exercises, done a couple times a week, can make a difference.

The Body-Weight Squat
The body-weight squat is one of my favorite exercises, and even after training for years, it’s still an exercises I go to often.
Start by standing up with your feet about shoulder-width apart or slightly wider. Have your feet and toes pointed straight ahead or slightly out, depending on what feels comfortable. The movement begins as you squat down, as if you were sitting in a chair. As soon as you hit the point where your thighs are at a 90 degree angle from your calves, bring yourself back up to a standing position, and repeat.
Here are some key points: (1) Keep your head up, (2) Try to have your weight evenly distributed throughout your feet so you’re not leaning too far forward, and (3) Get low enough!
The squat is not only a great lower body exercises, but since you’re moving your whole body, it gets your heart rate going quickly. For those new to exercise, try doing 10 repetitions in a row, two or three times, with a minute in between each set. If that’s easy – try three sets of 15 repetitions instead.

The Bench (Couch) Dips
The bench dip is a great exercises for targeting your triceps, the back of your upper arms. It’s also great because you can easily substitute a gym a bench for your couch at home.
Start by sitting at the edge of your bench. Grip the edge of the bench with both hands at your sides, palms facing behind you. Now, move your feet out far enough so that you are able to lower yourself in front of the bench, but close enough so that your feet can lie flat on the floor – your knees should be bent at about 90 degrees. The movement begins when you lower yourself down, when your elbows get to about 90 degrees, push yourself back up and repeat.
Again, for those new to exercises, try doing 6 repetitions in a row, two or three times.

The Plank
Like the squat, the plank is a favorite exercise of mine and one I continue to use. This exercise is great for targeting your core (or abs).
You may want a folded up yoga mat or a pillow. Start by lying flat on the floor. This is a exercise where you are going to hold your whole body up in a push-up-like position, by holding yourself up on your elbows (which is where you can put the mat or pillow). You want to elevate your body on your elbows and toes with your back and legs in a straight line. (1) Don’t stick your butt up in the air. (2) Don’t let your butt sag below your shoulders either.
Do your best to hold the position for one minute. A key part, that many of my new clients forget – KEEP BREATHING (preferably through your mouth the whole time).

Burpees
Burpees are a combination exercise and great for not only getting your heart rate going, but also for using your big upper body and lower body muscle groups. Not to mentions it can spike your metabolism to burn fat for hours after you exercise.
The exercise starts from a standing position. Next, lower yourself down to a push-up position and lower your entire body to the floor. Now, in anyway you can, bring yourself back up to a standing position by bringing your feet to where your hands are. Once standing, jump up in the air – nothing too fancy – just get your toes off the ground. Once you complete the jump, get back down to the push-up position, and repeat. A great start for this exercise is three sets of four reps.

And that’s it! Four exercises — all of which you can do in the comfort of your home. You can run through them all in less than 30 minutes. If you don’t have a regular exercise routine, doing this routine three or four times a week can make a big difference, and help your look and feel your best, whether it be for your big day or whenever you’re in front of Tyra’s lens.

If my descriptions don’t make sense, you can look them up on YouTube or you can talk to a personal trainer (LIKE ME). These exercises are a great start. For those looking for a personal, specific training plan a personal trainer (LIKE ME) can make a big difference. Check out other exercise tips and stories over at MY BLOG, or contact me at yuki@yukitraining.com.

Personal note: Seriously, you gotta book with Yuki -you won’t be disappointed. If you want to take your workouts to the next level, sign you and your honey up for a session with Yuki and it will jump start your motivation in getting started on a workout plan. Read more about Yuki in this past blog post I wrote, HERE. -Tyra 

Also, he is offering any first time clients a deal of three sesssions FOR $75. Get signed up and he will head your way.

2013 Wedding Trends | Boston Wedding Trends

Keeping up on “what’s hot and what’s not” for your wedding planning is important for many brides. There are so many fast-moving trends that are in and then out, so it is essential to be up-to-date with the latest wedding trends.

Let’s first talk about color and design. The big color for 2013 weddings is inspired by one of the world’s most precious gemstones, the emerald! This color can be used with a natural, woodsy theme to create a classy, sophisticated evening. Emerald can also be used not only as the main color of your big day, but as an elegant accent to your venue or details. Another noteworthy color is emerald’s contrasting color, nectarine. Nectarine is a fun and playful color. Playful colors are really in for 2013. A soft hue of orange that allows a vibrant tone to your wedding while still being light and romantic. I am also seeing geometric patterns incorporated into wedding themes. Art deco themed weddings are a big hit. These intricate patterns are a simple, fun way to add depth and sophistication. Events are taking inspirations from the Chrysler Building and the Empire State Building. My good friend Janessa has taken the geometric design to her form of art, quilt making. Check out some of her design at her shop, 27 Helicopters HERE and see this POST with one of her beautiful queen sized quilts with beautiful pops of color and geometric design.

If you’re looking for a more subdued color pallete for your 2013 wedding, white and neutrals are the way to go. They give an airy, luxurious blend that can add a vintage flavor or a clean and crisp atmosphere to your wedding. Also, you can subtly add the ombre effect into your color scheme. I love the ombre themed subtle colors used throughout wedding designs, it’s so stunning. Looking for more hot colors for 2013 weddings ideas consider, dusk or monaco blue, lemon zest, violets, and poppy red.

Themed weddings are also a big trend right now. Having a theme allows you to narrow down and pinpoint what it is that you really want for your wedding. A defined theme helps you choose a venue, attire, and decor. Read more about having a theme and picking your venue, HERE. I love themed weddings and having a theme throughout the entire wedding is big, big, big deal right now. Imagine if your whole day was centered around these theme ideas that are hot for the 2013 wedding season.

We all know of Downton Abbey, right? The wedding between Mary and Matthew Crawley created a big appetite for the 1920′s style. Brides can incorporate this theme into their ensemble by wearing a drop-waist gown, a leaf tiara, pearls, and even lace or embroidered gloves. Invitations that are inspired by telegrams are a fun way to prepare your guests for the vintage theme. You could also decorate with fine china and iconic bunting. The possibilities are endless!

Another trending wedding theme is similar to Downton Abbey The Great Gatsby. Gatsby’s parties in F. Scott Fitzgerald’s critically acclaimed novel, The Great Gatsby, were all about glamour, glitz, and style. Unlike the Downton Abbey Theme, the Great Gatsby is not so much soft and refined, as it is bold and luxurious. Gold, silver, geometric designs, and Art Deco details are a must. And if you’re a daring bride who wants to completely transform into a Roaring Twenties bride, accessories are a girl’s best friend. Experiment with pearls, fur stoles and extravagant headpieces. For hair, finger-waves are a must. Have your tables dripping in pearls and littered with crystals, nothing is too extreme for this theme!

If the 1920′s isn’t your cup of tea, another trending theme for 2013 weddings is Refined Rustic. A spin off of the 2012 Rustic Barn Wedding, the Refined Rustic Wedding adds a little more elegance to your special day. The bride and groom can take a more casual approach to attire with a Rustic Theme. Brides can wear simple, lace gowns and loose hair while grooms are polished without being uncomfortable or stuffy. Grooms also have more room to play with colors and patterns. Barns and inns are great locations for the Rustic Theme. But what makes it “Refined” is the decor! Decorate your venue with crystals, silver, white draping, and romantic lighting.

Another cute, new idea for weddings is a Farmers Market Theme! This theme is ideal for a country chic farm wedding. Brides and grooms can have casual, comfortable attire just as they would in a Refined Rustic Wedding. For this theme, decorating can be simple and personalized; add your initials to desserts and use chalkboards with handwritten messages. Add color to a Farmers Market Wedding through your flowers and food. Some fun decor to add to the theme could be wooden chairs, whiskey barrels, and mason jars.

A few other items on the “must haves” for the 2013 wedding season are large scaled focal points. One focal point could be a beer garden. Inspired by German heritage, beer gardens are landscaped with trees and plants that can be surrounded by benches with umbrellas. This area sounds very inviting and a great place to sit down and have a beer while catching up with your friends. This could be a fun addition to your wedding if you want your guests to have a lively and fun experience. If you aren’t much of a beer drinker, then consider doing a wine tasting area. This is a new and more interactive way of having a bar at your wedding. Having wine tastings are a fun, relaxed way to bring your guests together.

The other big thing for wedding decor focal points are floral hedges! Gardens have definitely made a comeback to weddings. Hedges can be used as dividers to break up a room. And you could even make a personalized message made of flowers to adorn the hedges.

Last but certainly not least, let’s talk about food. In 2013, the raw food movement is making headway. If you’re up for change, try to have a menu where nothing is cooked. Embrace sushi bars and all natural raw foods.

If you want to add some culture to your wedding, Korean food is the ethnic food of 2013. Doing something different for your food options will allow for a more personalized memory of your wedding day. There is nothing like reminiscing about how good the food was on a particular night, so spice it up and get creative with your food options. I always laugh when my husband says “how much more do we have to pay to get some taste in this food?” which is really sad. Don’t let your night be boring when it comes to the
food and give your guests something to talk about the next day. I certainly would!

In terms of drinks you may want to cross those signature drinks off of your list. This year, stick with the classics like a Manhattan, a Bloody Mary, an Old Fashioned, or a Gimlet. Also, mini shooters are in. Maybe consider doing a round of mini shooters at some point during the reception. Lastly, let’s not forget to mention the drink of the year for 2013 wedding, Tequila! Personally, Maestro Dobel is my favorite, but don’t stop there. Why not go out and do a tasting and pick your favorite tequila for the wedding.

The other factor to consider, which is really, really important in my book, is sweets and snacks. We have all been to wedding with a beautiful candy, right? Well do something similar, but try a new kind of bar, a popcorn bar. Not only is popcorn the snack of the year, but it comes in so many different flavors that you’re guests will love tasting.

The other thing to consider for your wedding is the cake. A wedding cakes may seem like a must have at your wedding, but that’s not the case! If you want cake but don’t want that huge cake, try individual mini-cakes for each of your guests. And if you’re looking to switch things up, do an ice cream station, or even try a donut bar (these could also make great focal points in the room!)

Also, another big trend is food trucks. Adding a food truck to your wedding is a great idea for feeding your guests that get a case of the munchies as the night goes on. Many food truck companies will make a deal with you if you book them for a certain time. What better way to end a night than with an amazing treat from your favorite food truck. BTW, there is a Food Truck Festival in Cambridge (Kendall Square) on June 8, 2013 and you can count on me being there!

Here’s a picture of my husband (The Wedding Lawyer) and me at the Chrysler Building (I love the geometric design of this building!) Thanks to our friend George who works in the building we were able to have our own personal tour. Thanks George! No thanks to my new iPhone that decided not to focus on our faces. You can never rely on those camera phones unless you have to, like me when I forgot my real camera.

Best New England Wedding Venues | Boston Wedding Photography | Vendor Love

Are you in the place where you are beginning to choose a wedding venue? If you are, then that means the process of planning your wedding has started, yipee! Finding the best venue to fit your taste and budget can be one of the most stressful parts about planning your wedding. The typical engaged couple will start looking and booking their wedding venue 12-18 months before their wedding date. Let me share with you a couple of great tips in picking the right wedding venue for you and your guests.

1. What style and setting do you want your wedding to be? Do you want a rustic wedding venue? A DIY backyard wedding? Or maybe a wedding venue on the water? As you begin searching and touring different venues, think about your end vision and how you want your day to feel. Let your desired wedding style take the driver’s seat among all the factors going into your decision.

2. Have a general idea of how many guests you are expecting and what will be best for your guests. Knowing your attendance will help you decide whether or not certain locations will work or not. Also, keep in mind that for some of your guests it will be a destination wedding! If you want to help your guests that have traveled from afar avoid car rentals, taxi services, or trolly rentals consider a venue that can accommodate your ceremony and reception. This also cuts down on all the travel time and logistics of making sure everybody is in the right place at the right time. Having everything at the same venue gives more reason for you to party like it’s 1999.

3. The wedding date. Don’t set a trap for yourself by getting your heart set on a single venue. Instead, choose several different venues that you like and then make a decision based on availability. Or, as many wedding couples do, choose a wedding venue first and then decide on a date that works for both you and the venue.

4. Plan your theme around your venue. Though you may have started planning your wedding with a certain theme in mind, consider being flexible and adapt your theme around your venue. For instance, if it is at a seaside or Cape Cod area hotel, maybe you should consider a corresponding theme, and then try to add in your initial ideas and theme where appropriate. Don’t ignore your venue when planning your wedding theme, embrace it!

5. Plan your venue around your theme. Do you see what I did there? If you have your heart set on a DIY, peacock feathers theme, keep this in mind as you search for the perfect wedding venue. If you want a country themed wedding with mason jars details, then don’t choose the State Room. Okay, that last example was pretty obvious, but you get the point: make sure your wedding venue, wedding theme, and wedding details all complement each other. At the very least make sure they don’t clash. I’m not sure how well a sophisticated Great Gatsby theme or Mad Men theme wedding can blend with a shabby chic wedding theme.

6. Staffing. See what the venue offers in terms of staffing. A venue with designated event management will likely provide all kinds of helpful services. These services can go a long way on your special day when you don’t have to worry about a thing (because that’s what they do!) Tip: Remember that you are the client and they are there to help! Many places that have several weddings at their venue get stuck in doing the day the way they have always done it, and it doesn’t always have to be that way. If you want it differently, SPEAK UP.

Okay, that’s it for tips from me, below are a few of my favorite venues in New England. Click the links to see how Tyra Bleek Photography has recorded these events and venues. Enjoy.

1. A Backyard Wedding. A great way to make your big day a little more personal. Backyard weddings are always my favorite way to mix the rustic outdoors aesthetic with the classic elegance of the event. And I always love DIY wedding details.
2. MIT Endicott House. Offers a charming and intimate wedding experience with unique grounds and gardens, yet it is very near Boston. This place is truly beautiful and unique in terms of picture opportunities.
3. Backyard Grafton Wedding. Another backyard country wedding is my cup of tea. This one is quite cute with all of it’s pink details, farm props and black tie attire.
4. Zukas Hilltop Barn.  Simple elegance with an idyllic country setting in both tented and indoor weddings.
5. Sunny California Wedding. You should have your wedding in California just because it’s sunny. This one was near Napa Valley.
6. Wychmere Beach Club Wedding. A discreetly luxurious Cape Cod location that spans along pristine acres of the Nantucket Sound.
7. Red Lion Inn Wedding. A nice blend of rustic and yet classic.
8. Rustic Farm Wedding. Beautiful New Hampshire venue at the Brass Heart Inn.
9. Essex Conference Center Wedding. Is set within acres of white pine and oak alongside the beautiful Cape Ann seaside near Gloucester. If you are looking for a camp, rustic feel for your wedding venue, this is your place. It’s deep in the woods with it’s own pond, trees and individual cabins to get ready in. A very quaint wedding venue.
10. Woods Hole Wedding. Is the perfect spot for a small, Cape Cod wedding. This couple rented a large house in Woods Hole, MA and brought in a tent for the reception. What a great idea. A backyard wedding with a very sophisticated feel.
11. Oceancliff Hotel Wedding.  Built in 1864, this beautiful Newport location offers acres of Rhode Island lawn with spectacular ocean views. You can’t go wrong.
12. State Room Wedding.  A Boston, urban chic location, atop a skyscraper that has unmatched views of the skyline and harbor.
13. Whispering Pines Conference Center Wedding. A Rhode Island location, surrounded by forests, lakes, and streams offers a peaceful and intimate setting for your special day. Looking for a camp-like feel to your wedding? This is your place. We ended the night with a campfire and smores, so much fun! Another quaint New England wedding venue. Great country wedding details.  Especially enjoyed the fall-themed boutineers and floral details. The perfect wedding venue for fall.
14. Red Lion Inn Cohasset Wedding. A boutique hotel south of Boston with a country-French style in a warm, New England seaside town. This venue is minutes away from the water and has endless photographic opportunities. So beautiful.
15. Tower Hill Botanic Wedding. Winner of “Best of Worcester” in 2012, the venue offers a picturesque location with amazing gardens. The Botanic Gardens is a dream come true for those couples that really want to have an outdoor wedding. This place has the best open patio that offers guests ample space to move around. The greenhouse room is also a great option for those rainy days, it’s a huge room with glass windows from floor to ceiling.

16.Perfect Martha’s Vineyard wedding venue: just kidding.  How have I shot dozens and dozens of weddings across New England and have never been asked to shoot a wedding in Martha’s Vineyard, Nantucket, or Block Island?  I mean, I just had my first overseas destination wedding in the British Virgin Islands (in the Caribbean), but I’ve never shot in the islands just off the coast of home state?  Somebody please help this poor, poor photographer ; )  This list is not complete until I can add the (surely) great wedding venues of Martha’s Vineyard, Nantucket, and Block Island!

Alana - Our venue was the best we could have picked. Having it at my childhood home made is so much more special. And we get to visit and relive the day whenever we want. Love the barn, Tyra.

Larry King - Nice venues. Would really like to see those sometime.

Birch Street Bistro | Roslindale’s Best Kept Secret

Here is one of my favorite restaurants in the area. I visit the “THE BIRCH STREET BISTRO” several times a week. Mostly because this is where I love to meet my clients for the first time, but also because my husband and I love the food and ambiance of the restaurant. It’s always a pleasent atmosphere and offers some of the best service in the Boston area. Mark, the owner of the bistro, has been in service for 9+ years. Actually, they are celebrating their 10 year anniversary May 6th with live music and $10 dinners by Chef Marcelo. Be sure to go over to their facebook page and “like” them to enter for a chance to win a dinner for two.

Because the restaurant is only open for dinner, it always has a hopping atmosphere, especially when they feature their favorite live jazz band on Thursday and Sunday nights. Another great thing the bistro offers is the option for engaged couples to host rehearsal dinners in the afternoons before their dinner hour (5pm) at a very reasonable price. Be sure to contact them if you are interested in hosting your rehearsal dinner there.